Spring-cleaning doesn’t stop at the dustpan and mop. The New Year’s feeling of resolution and starting over with a clean slate is enhanced with sunshine and chirping birds. This mentality seems to run through to all aspects of our lives including relationships, leaving some to only feel the seasonal rain and stinging bees when the […]

My blog posts I Don’t Want to Be Your Friend and I Don’t Want to Be Your Friend Either are my two most highly view posts. If you haven’t read them they are each about a girl who didn’t want to be my friend anymore. The first one tapered the relationship off slowly, and the second ended […]

Another one bites the dust. You might remember my post I Don’t Want to Be Your Friend — which was about how my closet girlfriend didn’t want to be my friend anymore. Well, history has repeated itself. Since the lost of TC I have found myself part of a cluster of girls that hangout every weekend. I once […]

After a three-day passive aggressive fight with a Gentleman Caller (GC), I realize how important it is to say, “I don’t want to be your friend.” Over the years, I’ve lost many friends. Switching towns and schools every couple of years as a kid ruins the ability to have lifelong friends. Being shipped off to grandparents […]